A DEVOTIONAL GUIDE FOR “THE TEN TIMELESS VALUES FOR DISCIPLESHIP”

 Value 7- Week 1                                            Fellowship


Word:             “They devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and fellowship, to the breaking of bread and the prayers.”                                                                                                         Acts 2:42


Reflection:  The Lost Discipline

     Today some of the most dynamic churches in the world have rediscovered a basic Biblical truth about being the Church.  When it comes to disciple making, less is more.  Effective churches like the Acts church choose to do fewer things, but have a clear strategy and do those few things well.  When the church exploded after Pentecost, the writer of Acts tells us they “devoted themselves” to only four critical practices: study, fellowship, worship, and prayer.  These weren’t the only things they did, but everything else they did flowed naturally out of lives that were transformed through the four critical practices.  Of those four primary practices that were critical to transforming ordinary people into extraordinary followers of Jesus, the most surprising is surely fellowship.  At least as we have currently come to understand and practice it in most mainline United Methodist churches. 

     There is always some question as to whether our language reveals or shapes something (it is probably both).  Many of us grew up in or still attend churches that had/have a “social hall”.  Which was/is an appropriate name, considering it seems to me that in large part we have come to substitute social gatherings in the church for what the early church and the early Methodist would have called fellowship.  The result is that fellowship as a critical discipline for disciple making has been largely lost.  What happens in most social halls is socialization.  Socialization is important to our humanity, it fills the need for companionship, but it doesn’t necessarily contribute to discipleship, even if it takes place in a church.  Don’t get me wrong, I love family night suppers, but the best I can tell, they aren’t Biblical fellowship.  As we shall see over the next three weeks, they lack intentional community, accountability, a common destination, encouragement, and admonishment.  In short, there is little “watching over one another in love” that characterized the early Methodist class meeting (their version of fellowship).  This misunderstanding of fellowship is one reason that it has become a commonly held belief that you don’t have to be a part of a church to be a Christian.  The need for socialization is filled elsewhere.  Lest this sound too critical of the church today, it has apparently always been easy to neglect this critical discipline.  The writer of Hebrews had to remind the early Christians, “And let us consider how to provoke one another to love and good deeds, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day approaching.” (Hebrews 10:24-25)  Today many people who are serious about following Jesus are rediscovering fellowship as they find their way back into small groups who meet regularly to “watch over one another in love”.



Practice:  This week read Acts 2:42-47 and review your church’s ministry of “fellowship” through that model and see if you are really practicing the Biblical discipline of “fellowship”.

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