A DEVOTIONAL GUIDE FOR “THE TEN TIMELESS VALUES FOR DISCIPLESHIP”

 Value 10- Week 3                                          Prayer

 Word:             “When you are praying, do not heap up empty phrases as the Gentiles do; for they think they think they will be heard because of their many words . . . Pray then in this way . . .” 
Matthew 6:7-9

                      “Lord teach us how to pray . . .”     Luke 11:1

 Reflection:  How to Pray
     One of the most surprising conversations between Jesus and the disciples took place when they had been watching Jesus pray and went on to ask him to teach them how to pray.  What is surprising is that these were good faithful Jewish men whom we would assume had been praying all their lives.  Something about Jesus’ prayer life made them realize that there are many ways to pray.  Richard Foster’s book, “Prayer: Finding the Heart’s True Home” has twenty-one chapters, each on a different method of praying.  The book of Psalms is really a collection of different kinds of prayers.  We might just assume that everyone naturally knows how to pray, but forget that for many of us we were taught early on how to pray.  At bedtime our parents might have taught us this prayer, “Now I lay me down to sleep.  I pray my Lord my soul to keep.  If I should die before I wake, I pray my Lord my soul to take”, or at mealtime, “God is great, God is good, let us thank Him for our food. By his hands, we are fed, thank you God for daily bread.”, or at school or church we learned, “Our Father who art in heaven, hallowed by thy name . . . .”  Hopefully through those taught prayers we eventually learned to find our own words for prayer, but how we prayed was taught to most of us.  There are prayer acronyms like ACTS (adoration, confession, thanksgiving, supplication) and the “five finger prayer”.  I love one teacher’s simple description of prayer, “HELP!!!!!!!!!!” (reminds me of Paul saying when we don’t know how to pray the Holy Spirit will pray for us in groans not words).  Jesus gave a couple of pieces of advice about praying like the story of the unjust judge and the widow in which he said we should pray and not give up.  He warned about not praying like the religious professionals who prayed on the street corner to be heard (pray instead in secret) or with many words (or big words).  He was more impressed with the simple prayer of the tax collector who prayed, “Have mercy on me a sinner”.  While there are many ways to pray, with words, without words, through the Word, without ceasing, with persistence, asking and letting go, by faith, with honest doubt, praise, thanksgiving, confessions, intercession, supplication, with authority, with humility, etc, etc, etc, the most important thing is that we pray.  The first chapter of Foster’s book is about “simple prayer” in which we simply talk to God who is always listening.  We open our heart to God in honesty (one of the beautiful things about the Psalms who spill every emotion out to God in prayer), because everyone wants to know that we are heard, that there is someone who knows me so well that I don’t have to pretend or hide anything of myself.  Prayer itself is an act of faith even when we feel our faith is small and fragile and in it we find the greatest security, the unconditional love of our “Heavenly Father” who knows our needs before we ask and longs that we ask anyway.

 ractice:  Try some different ways of praying this week than your normal practice.  Read a book on prayer for directions like Foster’s book to glean new ideas.  But, above all, just talk to God in a running conversation throughout your day.

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